Timeless Flirting Tactic

I’ve read a lot of tactics about flirting/picking up girls. I’ve added to the discussion a little bit and hopefully I ended up giving someone some advice/skill that gave them the power to bang that fading high school hottie who’s trapped in a slut spiral.

But when the chips are down, there’s only one tactic you can rely on. It’s kind of like drunk boxing. I mean, you can learn the ins and outs of boxing with all the speed, agility, power, and technique that go into being a great fighter. But drunk boxing is different. You have to stick to the basics because all of the sophisticated tactics you learned from training hours over hours in the gym have fallen victim to your sluggishness. That might be a bad example. Whatever, let’s move on.

Which is why, when the game is on the line (the close) and there’s 1000 different ideas running through your head about what move you should do next or say, you should forget them all and rely on what made you who you are: your hormones. At least that’s what I do. I think the number of possible situations I find myself in is large enough where there’s never time to weigh my options. Instincts are all I really have, and improving those is just so amazingly difficult.

I’m convinced more than ever that “learning game” is more about forgetting the things society taught you than it is learning anything new. The so called “naturals” of picking up girls just never bother to learn what they are ‘supposed’ to learn about respecting women and their boundaries. They just take what they believe is rightfully theirs in every step of their lives: anything and everything they want. In the same breath, it’s worth pointing out that the naturals don’t go overboard with the disrespect either in the way that the players on the big screen make it happen.

This shows the larger idea of how learning the wrong thing, or learning a lie, is so much more damaging than learning nothing. And speak of the devil, I have go follow my instincts right now. I’m just trying to accomplish a foolish goal of having a blog post every day for a week, diluting this blog in the process.

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5 responses to “Timeless Flirting Tactic

  1. Hope

    I’m convinced more than ever that “learning game” is more about forgetting the things society taught you than it is learning anything new. The so called “naturals” of picking up girls just never bother to learn what they are ’supposed’ to learn about respecting women and their boundaries. They just take what they believe is rightfully theirs in every step of their lives: anything and everything they want. In the same breath, it’s worth pointing out that the naturals don’t go overboard with the disrespect either in the way that the players on the big screen make it happen.

    This is pretty insightful. I never really had girl “game” when I was in high school, and I was this awkward nerdy girl who wasn’t popular at all, but guys just kept falling in love with me because I was going totally with my hormones and what I wanted. It was great. Even though I was kind of retarded, I didn’t have any kind of sexual repression on me since I didn’t have a religious upbringing. Nowadays I have too much society stuff in the way of my natural self, which is good because I’m married and don’t need or want random guys to get hot for me.

  2. Frankie

    It is the most pure and honest way. The only credible way. If I have the “honour” of having my personal oestrogenically ultimate alpha on my back, I will reject him nontheless. I am just not charmed about male sexuality for one bit, to put it mildly. In my eyes it is simply worthless.

    Unfortunately (although I wonder how unfortunate it really is) I am not and never will be a lesbian, so I am and always will be spending my nights alone in my luxurious, quiet but never boring single bed. My cat can sleep at my feet, but that’s it.

    This way I am always certain that I am in bed with a person who really likes and respects me for the person I am and not for my physical attributes. Somebody who will be devoted to me and stay with me and love me just as much when I get older, when I loose my looks or when I become ill or handicapped in any way. And this way I can be relatively stressfree and so: really productive the way I see fit.

  3. johnny five

    But drunk boxing is different. You have to stick to the basics because all of the sophisticated tactics you learned from training hours over hours in the gym have fallen victim to your sluggishness.

    fuck that, the only time i can conjure any ‘sophisticated tactics’ is when i’m drunk. that’s when i get creeeeeeative, baby.

  4. potato

    out of all the dc blogs i read regularly (roosh, vk, roissy), yours is fast becoming the most interesting and insightful. write when it strikes you, but just don’t stop writing.

  5. ro42g

    Well put dude. I think going overboard is what happens when you have been in the game too long. Naturals and players are pretty much the same except players do it as a business and naturals just do whatever they want.

    I like being a player over a natural though. It is like Kobe vs. Lebron. No way Lebron is going to beat Kobe no matter how naturally talented he is. Kobe is the ultimate player. He goes straight for the throat regardless of who likes it or not.

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